It's been two weeks since the election and I'm still feeling raw. Facebook is not helping but I can't stop looking at it. There's so much bullshit and nastiness and hypocrisy, ugh, I hate hypocrisy so much. Friends and family members are getting unfollowed over this. I wonder if I would cut someone off because of this election? I did not anticipate this much of a divide even though as of this writing, Clinton is leading in the popular vote by 1.5 million. I understand that people I'm friends with did not vote for Clinton because:
- they really don't like Hillary Clinton
- they really don't like President Obama
- they really don't like Political Correctness
- they're tired of lifetime politicians running the country
- they believe that this is the CHANGE that will make their lives better
- they think he's gonna bring back jobs and fix the economy
They are willing to overlook all the negative traits Donald Trump carries because hey, nobody is perfect right? We all say and do stupid things sometimes.
Can I digress for a minute and make wrestling analogy (again with the wrestling!)?
I was a fan of Chris Benoit. I thought he was really cool and great in the ring. That immediately changed in June 2007, the day I found out he killed his wife and son and took his own life. A lot of wrestling fans still say he's one of their favorite wrestlers. For me, that one act cancels out all of his accomplishments in the ring. Fuck that guy!!!
I am having a very hard time giving Donald Trump a chance especially when:
- he continues to make as ass of himself on Twitter (can someone change his password??)
- his cabinet picks and considerations continues to be alarming and a threat to women, foreigners and LGBTQ
- he was endorsed by the KKK
- he is not doing enough to speak out about the continuing vandalism and attacks on people done in his name
Notice I didn't bring up anything prior to the election, this is all recent!
Where does this leave my friends? I don't think they're racist or sexist jerks. I do think they are tired of seeing others benefit while they get shafted. They feel strongly enough that they are willing to overlook the threats faced by others because the greater good is coming, or they're just complacent. I want to understand, I really do.
It's okay to disagree with me, we can talk about that, but don't belittle me. I know what it's like to share different views as most of your friends. I did not vote for Obama in 2008. I was not a member of the Obama Fan Club. This put me in the minority with a lot of my friends who were all "Yay!!! Hope and change!!" While I was thinking, "We are fucked." But I did not troll around Facebook trying to burst people's bubble with reality checks.
I'm tired of being around negative people. I have been negative for far too long. I don't need this shit in my life. We are in a fragile time where we need to build each other up, not tear each other down because we don't agree. Let's find some common ground. Life is short to be wasted on people who won't support you or try to make this world we all live in a better place. I know you're more than just who you voted for. You can have your views and opinions but your actions say more about who you are. If you voted for Clinton and you don't say "Thank You" if I hold the door open for you, I'm gonna think you're a dick. If you voted for Trump but you volunteer at homeless shelter, I'll have more respect for you. If I know you and voted for Trump and all you got to say is, "Get over it you sore loser! You're all a bunch of cry babies!" then you're not my friend, g'bye.
- How to Share Your Beliefs (Even with People Who Don't Agree) - Positively Present
- Why I can't get over the Trump election, as a survivor of sexual assault - Offbeat Home & Life
- Let's Not Confuse Political Correctness With Basic Human Decency - Huffington Post